Relationship is about two individual, totally committed without loosing oneself..

Often when people want a  relationship, they either look for someone to complete them or they imagine sharing their life with someone just like them. Its been couple of days going through the thoughts regarding RELATIONSHIP. I wonder sometime thinking about my relationship with my family even the relation with family go through rough patches but then we never have hard feelings, Do We? I don’t think,  I also felt a different love for my family and friends. I began to love people for who they were. I loved them in freedom. We love back with no expectation and I always think relationship should be something like that.

Do you really want to be in a relationship with someone you had to manipulate into it? Do you want your partner to be enchanted by an image you have created so that you have to hide yourself in some way? Or do you want your partner to love you wholeheartedly? I have seen many relationships where I  felt restricted, to a lesser or higher degree.  This felt suffocating. I observed a relationship, where boyfriend explicitly told  that girlfriend not allowed to have any friends who are male, or that she have to tell him where she is  going every time leaving house.  Jennifer Aniston once told “to make your boyfriend happy is not your full time job” and that means a lot to me.

I believe ” we must love the person in such a way that person we love feels free”

Loving people without attachment is a monumental milestone for me. It is the process of self-love that will allow to reach another milestone of love.To love someone is to love them without possessing them, without owning them.  Don’t get me wrong, this is just my feeling, I’m fortunate enough  to know some truly extraordinary people; I have learned one thing, When we meet someone we have a good connection with, we need to allow that connection to develop and grow.

I haven’t found the perfect relationship yet, and as perfect people don’t exist, nor can perfect relationships, but there are people who are more or less compatible with you, they are people who you connect with at a selfless and higher level of the soul, rather than just through your minds.

I pray that I will never stop believing in the existence of my soul mate..